CAPA’s Angel Walk to help prevent child abuse in Beaufort County

CAPA Community Relations Coordinator, Gloria Duryea (left) and Executive Director, Susan Cato

On Saturday, April 30, the Child Abuse Prevention Association, more commonly known in Beaufort as CAPA, invites walkers and runners to participate in the 3rd Annual Angel Walk at the Waterfront Park in Downtown Beaufort. The goal of the Angel Walk is to raise funds necessary to ensure that services are available to prevent child abuse and neglect in Beaufort County. Since April is child abuse prevention month, CAPA would like the community to walk together, to improve the lives of all of our children.
Recently, I sat with Susan Cato, Executive Director of CAPA and Gloria Duryea, Community Relations Coordinator, and listened as they emotionally described the destructive cycle of abuse. They also presented the content of CAPA’s effective Parenting Classes, which provide the knowledge, encouragement and network a mother or father needs to be the best parent they can be. The class is based on the Positive Parenting Program, Triple P, a science-based, proven program that has been helping parents for over 20 years.
The following is a testimonial of a woman who recently completed the class. He name has been changed to protect her identity.
Tamara, a 25-year-old mom, explained that she had made a very bad decision to leave her children with her boyfriend while she worked. Her boyfriend beat their two-year-old, breaking several ribs and leaving him with internal bleeding and swelling in his groin.
Tamara was charged with child neglect, and her other children, ages 9 months and four years, were placed with relatives. The two-year-old was placed in foster care. The boyfriend was arrested and charged with criminal child abuse. She knew that he beat her, but she never thought he would beat his son. She received counseling from Citizens Opposed to Domestic Abuse (CODA) and began to understand domestic violence and that her situation was typical. She also learned that she believed that somehow she deserved what she got. She had to change. She had failed her children and was at rock bottom.
She came to CAPA’s parenting classes, where she was welcomed. She said the facilitator encouraged her to talk, gave her suggestions and coached her. “She started with me where I was,” she said. She also said she felt secure in knowing that what was discussed there was confidential; and, as she developed trust with the group, she began to open up. She felt that someone cared about her situation.
“Don’t get me wrong,” she said, “there was accountability – be honest, be on time, take ownership of your problems and be willing to work to change. If you are late, you can stay but get no credit for the class.”
Tamara said the Monday night class gave her a “fix” for the week – the counseling, the friendships and learning better ways to parent and how to manage relationships and anger. She stated that the classes “changed my life.”
She learned, “No yelling, no hitting, helpful ways to parent and deal with children in a way that was not something I had ever experienced.” She applied what she learned to all her relationships. Being there was a priority for Tamara, not only because she wanted to get her children back but because she was learning so much and she wanted to be there. She encouraged friends to come along with her.
She explained how the facilitator “brought it down to our level, called her during the week, giving her feedback and making important points understandable and useable.” She said the facilitator was an incredible teacher who made it clear that she also continues to learn. She felt that, more than parenting classes, what she really gained was “life coaching.” She continues to be active in the classes, beyond her eight week commitment. She also plans to join the PS We Love You Support Group where she will have an on-going relationship with CAPA and women that will help her become the parent she wants to be.
Tamara explained that her own mother had left her and her siblings when they were younger. The nine children were split up and raised by different people all over the country. Tamara said she was anxious to go back to her siblings and help them understand that it wasn’t their fault that their mother didn’t want to be responsible for them. I want to help them break the abuse cycle too.
She noted, “Children are like sponges, they absorb everything – good and bad. Sometimes, they blame themselves for not receiving the love they deserve and see themselves as unlovable,” she explained.
Tamara said that participating in CAPA’s classes affirmed that, for the first time in her life, she had a voice, a home, a sanctuary and a firm ground beneath her. She explained that she wished she could go back and change things – for her siblings and for her children. That not being possible, she wants to help others know that family violence escalates. While she feels betrayed by her former boyfriend, she knows that she failed to protect her children when she failed to protect herself. “You cannot protect your children unless you leave,” she said.
For the first time, she has found what was missing in her life – her ability to understand that she and her children deserve love. “I have experienced family violence and will not have my children experience the same,” she said. “My children deserve better,” she concluded.
Tamara has arranged for her children to have safe childcare while she works. She wants to be a co-leader in the Triple P classes. Most of all, she wants to be the best mother that she can be.

 

St. Helena 55th Annual Spring Tour of Homes

By Marie McAden

 

Take a peek inside some of Beaufort’s most beautiful historic homes April 8 when the Parish Church of St. Helena presents its 55th Annual Spring Tour of Homes.

 

The popular Lowcountry fundraiser will feature six homes on Bay and North Streets in the much-celebrated Bluff neighborhood, along with two churches from the 18th and 19th centuries. To cap off the candlelight tour, guests will be invited to an outdoor reception in a private garden designed by internationally renowned landscape architect Robert E. Marvin, best known for his work on Callaway Gardens in Georgia and Beaufort’s own Waterfront Park.

 

“The reception is one of the highlights of the tour,” said event co-chairman Leigh Ward. “We’ll have live music and lots of food prepared by the women of the parish. Tables will be set up on the porch and in the front and side gardens.”

 

Guests can pick up their tickets at St. Helena’s parish hall as early as 4 p.m. and take a tour of the historic church that served as a hospital during both the Revolutionary and Civil wars.  At 5:30 they can begin touring the homes, all located within an eight- to 10-block area of the church.

 

Among the North Street residences is a 1929 Craftsman-style house that has been renovated and expanded at least three times. The current owners added a red tin roof, master bedroom and bath, a family room, laundry room and family room, along with a large guest house behind the original one-story structure.

 

“It’s very deceiving from the outside,” said owner Laura Trask. “It looks like a little cottage, but inside, it really opens up. It has 10-foot ceilings and very large rooms.”

 

The house also features an eclectic collection of art that includes two pieces by renowned “outsider” artist Sam Doyle, five black and white images by Life magazine photographer Ed Clark and a large “cartoon” or sketch of a section of a fresco created by North Carolina artist Benjamin F. Long.

 

Also on the tour is a Bay Street house built in 1880 by a Civil War foot soldier from Upstate New York, who lived out his life in Beaufort and was buried in the St. Helena Church cemetery.

 

“We gutted the place and did a total renovation, but we retained most of the interior detail, including the original flooring, plaster walls and four fireplaces,” said owner Trudy Stevens.

 

The newest house on the tour, built 17 years ago by the owners of the Rhett House Inn, was featured this winter in Southern Living magazine.

“It’s a Lowcountry-style house with wide open spaces and 11 foot ceilings,” said owner Marianne Harrison. “French doors from the kitchen, master bedroom and living room open to a big screened porch.”

Tickets to the house tour and garden reception are $40. Proceeds from the event benefit a variety of local, national and international non-profit organizations. For more information or to purchase tickets, call 524-0363.

 

COUNTY PLANNING DIRECTOR TO SPEAK AT LIBPA MEETING

LIBPA GUEST SPEAKER FOR APRIL
Tony Criscitiello
Director of Beaufort County Planning Department

Mr. Criscitiello assumed his present position as Director of Planning for Beaufort County in 2000. Prior to his arrival in Beaufort County his professional experience included service in the Governor’s Office with the Local Government Assistance Division, the Berkeley-Charleston-Dorchester Council of Government and Planning Director for the City of North Augusta. Since his arrival in Beaufort County, he has guided the initial implementation of the Comprehensive Plan, the 5 year review of the Comprehensive Plan, the development of the Southern Beaufort County Regional Plan, the Northern Regional Plan, the rewriting of the entire County Comprehensive Plan and is presently guiding the transition of existing zoning codes toward the use of a form based code. He has been requested to include in his discussion with our members the following items.

– Has the Northern Regional Plan improved the manner in which growth is guided?
– From a Beaufort County planning perspective what were the biggest failures and successes in the last decade?
– What is a form based code and why is its adoption being promoted.
– What effect will form based code have on Lady’s Island?
– Are the annexation wars a thing of the past?
– Is Beaufort County ready for the next growth surge?

Meeting: Tuesday, April 12, 8 AM
Beaufort Realtor’s Association Headquarters – Palmetto Business Park, Lady’s Island Drive
Invite your friends and neighbors.
Open to the public

WHO WILL BE NAMED FAVORITES?

Attention Beaufort! The votes are in. Winners of The Island News Favorites contest will be announced in next week’s issue! Don’t forget to get your copy on April 7th and see the faces and places that won in 127 categories.

A Head Full of Heart Turned into A Heart Full of Gold

By Cherimie Crane

 

Pete Olsson

 

Today’s perception of a typcial high school student is akin to the economy. Everyone has a definition, a theory, and a story. With their heads tucked inches from an Ipad, their fingers in full attack mode of a text, and cloaked in the latest fashion of indifference, the portrayal is in a dim, unflattering light.

 

 

Truth is, the entire world is swarmed with energetic, positive, dedicated teens with a social conscience that is far deeper than fashion and folly. They have somehow maintained precious optimism with views and ideas certain to cure the symptoms of a world sick with doubt.

 

 

Lief Kopperneas gives Pete Olsson a new hair cut called “The Friar.”

This week I met Pete Olsson who not only is president of the Beaufort Academy Student Body Government, but an all around goal achieving young man. In discussing what might have been a Hoops For Hearts fundraiser he chose to alleviate the stress of planning, logistics, and expense it may take to take on such a project. His solution was simple, meaningful, and pure brilliance.

 

 

Pete has a head full of hair; well he did before Wednesday. He challenged his fellow students to donate money to the American Heart Association in exchange for their chance to determine the fate of his locks! The students made posters depicting the hair cut options that were Saturday Night Live worthy! These kids had a blast. Pete made a promise and kept it.

 

Wednesday Mr. Olsson became the proud recipient of The Friar. A fellow student, Lief Kopperneas proudly shaved the center of Petes head to commensurate attaining their goal of over $200 donated directly to the American Heart Association. What was a head full of hair turned clearly into a heart of gold.

 

There are many young world changers flip flopping around Beaufort. Take a moment to encourage and support them; they are our near future weird hair cuts and all!

 

Feast your eyes on THE DINING ROOM

“The Dining Room” takes place, not surprisingly, in an American dining room, where 6 actors play 57 characters in eighteen scenes taking place both over 80 years’ time and over the course of a single day.

Playwright A.R. Gurney explores the ways in which the upper-crust once used this almost mythical space as a haven from the world outside, while their children and their “help” often felt oppressed by it.

None of the vignettes is connected to the others by anything other than the dining room setting. And there are no familial links between the characters in the various scenes. As one critic put it, “The lynchpin that holds this play together isn’t the stream of characters, who reveal their humanity in scenes both dramatic and comic, it’s the table and chairs. They are the only constant, and their presence is always keenly felt… The room represents not a particular home or family, but a host of such dining rooms peopled by families in varying degrees of stability or disintegration.”

Scenes jump from one era to another, and sometimes the action overlaps, so that before one scene is finished, characters from the next scene enter.

The 1982 Off-Broadway production of “The Dining Room” ran eighteen months, earned Gurney a place as a Pulitzer finalist, and established him as an important American playwright.

Though Gurney did not invent the convention of actors playing multiple roles, one critic noted that he was “certainly influential in introducing the convention that made The Dining Room such fiendishly stylish fun to watch— and still does.”

Gurney’s script notes make it clear that the set should be a well-appointed dining room, set in a sort of limbo, or as if it were a roped-off exhibit in a museum. He also noted that the cast should ideally be six actors, “people of different ages, sizes and shapes as long as they are all good actors,” so they may play characters that are their “type” or completely opposite of their age and looks.

The actors segue from noisy little kids to doddering old folks and every kind of character in between: eye-rolling Valley Girls, a strict, still-wealthy Depression-era father, or a stockbroker-turned-carpenter from the self-actualizing 60s.

Gurney has said that he rewrote portions of dialogue and plot on nights his family attended performances, fearing they might recognize themselves and be upset. As a result, the comedy is one in which the audience can recognize themselves and their families with new insight.

“It is so relatable,” said American Academy of Dramatic Arts graduate Rob Spencer. “Stories of the characters transcend many generations, offering something for everyone.”

Spencer and other actors in the production agree that portraying up to ten characters each over the course of two hours was daunting at first. But now they love it.

“The most challenging aspect is the emotional and mental transformations from one character to the next, sometimes one right after the other,” according to Spencer, who in one scene is a five-year-old at a birthday party and then a very old, very rich grandfather in the scene that follows.

Joellen Hirschey, a graduate of Beaufort High who attended the American Musical and Dramatic Academy in New York, agreed. “I love the challenge of playing multiple roles,” she said. “It gives me the chance to really focus on my voice work and body movement. I like to take it one character at a time, getting to know her, creating a history for her. I respect and love every one of my characters, and I want to do them all justice.”

Benji Morgan is a music teacher at Red Cedar Elementary in Bluffton, so he knows a thing or two about the youngsters he plays several times throughout “The Dining Room.” “I love when I get to play a young boy,” Morgan said. “It’s a blast getting in touch with my inner child…I also enjoy my final scene as Standish (an offended blueblood, who must avenge an insult to his brother’s honor at the country club). The scene takes me out of my comfort zone and is helping me grow as an actor.”

Lady’s Island resident Carrie Freeman and her husband Allen loaned the production their gorgeous dining room set. The actress feels “people should come and see this play because I think, especially in today’s world, it puts life in perspective. It helps us see the important things. The show isn’t just about a dining room; it’s about so much more.”

 

A Beautiful Day for an Adventure Biathlon

Kayak and Foot Race a Success for Sea Island Rotary

A total of 52 Awards were given in several categories. For a complete list of race results and more photos, please visit the Sports Page.

Kayakers paddled almost 6 miles on Hunting Island for the Sea Island Rotary Adventure Rotary on Saturday, March 12.

Last Saturday, over 150 participants took part in Sea Island Rotary’s Adventure Biathlon, a kayak and foot race at Hunting Island State Park on a day seemingly meant for an outside contest. Paddlers and runners couldn’t have asked for better weather with temperatures climbing to the mid-seventies on a beautiful, sunny afternoon.

 

Charles Tumlin and Jered Kraszewski drag their kayak onto the beach and get ready for the running leg of the race.

Paddlers of kayaks and one brave paddleboarder started and finished at the base of the Lagoon, located at the south end of the barrier island. Participants in solo, relay and tandem divisions paddled almost 6 miles. Upon beaching their boats back at the base of the lagoon, the running leg began; and race enthusiasts ran approximately 4.5 miles through the pristine maritime forest.

 

Chip timing was used, which allowed Sea Island Rotary to provide split times for paddle and run, as well as compute results accurately and fast for each division. Setup Events organized the successful biathlon.

 

Jeff Myers finishes 11th in the Men’s Solo and Kayak Run Division.

Chuck Hiers from Springfield, SC won the Male Solo Division with a time of 1 hour, 9 minutes and 55 seconds, with Beaufortonian Pete Greene following closely behind by only 2 seconds.

 

Kim Gundler from Beaufort won the Female Solo division with a time of 1 hour, 42 minutes and 23 seconds.

A total of 52 Awards were given in several categories. For a complete list of race results and more photos, please visit the Sports Page.

All net proceeds from the Adventure Biathlon will be awarded to charities supported by Sea Island Rotary.

 

DUKE ORCHESTRA TO PERFORM BENEFIT CONCERT

 

For the eighth straight year, the Duke Symphony Orchestra will travel to the Lowcountry to present a benefit concert for Beaufort Memorial Hospital’s Keyserling Cancer Center.

The March 26 fundraiser will feature approximately 65 members from the North Carolina university’s ensemble performing a repertoire of symphonic classical works. Joining them again this year on two of the evening’s selections will be the Beaufort High School Voices, an advanced student choral group.

“We thoroughly enjoy coming down to Beaufort to perform for the community,” said Harry Davidson, director of the Duke orchestra. “Everyone is so welcoming.”

Local residents volunteer to host the visiting orchestra members during their stay in Beaufort. Over the years, many of the students have developed friendships with their host families.

“It’s been great on so many levels,” said Alice Moss, executive director of the Beaufort Memorial Foundation, which organizes the concert. “The energy these young musicians bring to the community makes it a truly magical event.”

Held at The Arts Center at Beaufort High School on Lady’s Island, the 7 p.m. performance will include works by such composers as Schumann, Barber, Liszt, Hovnaness, MacDowell and Grainger.

General admission tickets are $35. Patron tickets are $75 and include premium seating and a conductor’s reception following the concert at the historic Old Point home of Dr. and Mrs. John Gray. The entire orchestra also attends the reception.

“The students are not music majors,” said Davidson, professor of the Practice of Music. “Duke doesn’t offer music performance degrees. These are kids who played in their high school bands and have been taking lessons for years. They perform with the orchestra because they want to keep music in their lives.”

The Duke symphony rehearses twice a week and performs three to four concerts a semester, including a Labor Day pops concert for the Durham, N.C., community.

This will be the fifth year Voices will perform with the college students. The 50-member choral group’s repertoire includes a wide range of music from jazz to classical. In recent years, Voices has performed at a number of prestigious events, including the Heritage Choral Competition in Washington, D.C., the Disney Jazz Festival in Orlando and the South Carolina Jazz Festival.

“The Duke Symphony Orchestra concert is always a fun event for us,” said Choral Director Victor Varner. “It’s thrilling for the students to perform with a full symphony orchestra.”

Proceeds from the concert benefit the Keyserling Cancer Center and the Healing Arts Program.

“It’s one of our most successful fundraisers,” Moss said. “The money raised from this event is used to improve the services and experience of our patients and their families at the Keyserling Cancer Center.”

Once again this year, the foundation is offering discounted ticket prices for groups of 10 or more — $250 for 10 general admission tickets, $500 for 10 patron tickets.

For more information on the concert or to purchase tickets, call the Beaufort Memorial Hospital Foundation at (843) 522-5774.

 

 

3rd Annual Beaufort Twilight Run and Oyster Roast set for March 19th

Fitness, food and fun are the focus of Beaufort’s biggest running festival!

Runners will take their marks at sunset on March 19, 2011 in the 3rd Annual Beaufort Twilight Run and Oyster Roast. The event drew close to 1500 people last year. Participants came from all over the Lowcountry and throughout the U.S., and this year the race organizers are expecting even larger crowds.

 

The Twilight Run is open to athletes and spectators of all ages (registration required to participate). The evening kicks off at 4:30 pm with the Kids’ 1⁄4 mile Fun Run. New to the Twilight Run this year is a timed 5K Run, which will take place with the 5K Fun Walk shortly after the Kid’s Run. These events will be followed by the big event – a timed, USATF sanctioned 8K run at 6:15 pm. All racecourses run through the coastal community of Habersham, with picturesque views along the marsh and beneath the sprawling live oak trees.

 

Cash prizes will be awarded to the top male and female 8K finishers in several categories: top 3 overall winners, masters overall, active duty military, and hometown hero (Beaufort County resident). Awards will also be given to the 5K Run male and female top 3 overall winners and masters overall winners. Male and female 8K and 5K Run age group awards will also be given. All participants of the kids’ fun run will receive an award.                  Registration discounts are available online to active duty military.

 

The post-race festival includes food, music and fun!                  The Oyster Roast, catered by Sea Eagle Market, is open to the general public, and will include a lot more than just oysters! Oyster roast tickets, kid’s meal tickets and race registration can all be purchased online at http://www.BeaufortTwilightRun.com. And everyone will enjoy the awesome tunes of Stan Gray & the Stingrays from Charleston – it’s going to be a great night!

 

The Twilight Run is an annual fundraiser for Beaufort County’s first charter school, Riverview Charter School. Riverview’s Development Chair and the event’s coordinator, Jody Hayward, is thrilled about the overwhelming response and interest in the 2011 Beaufort Twilight Run and Oyster Roast. “We are really excited about our 3rd Twilight Run. It has become a favorite family event for so many people throughout the Lowcountry.                  The response that we received from the runners last year was awesome, and this year’s registrations are coming in from all over the Southeast. With the introduction of the 5K Run this year, I think we’re on track for another great event!”

 

For more information about The Beaufort Twilight Run and Oyster Roast visit http://www.BeaufortTwilightRun.com. Proceeds from the race will benefit Riverview Charter School: a FREE, public school authorized by the Beaufort County School District and open to all Beaufort County students K-8th Grade (www.RiverviewCharterSchool.org).

 

Beaufort student is state chess champion

 

 

Chris Hoogenboom displays his tropy after winning the South Carolina Scholastic Chess Championship.

On Saturday, March 5, Chris Hoogenboom, a fifth grader at Riverview Charter School, represented Beaufort and The Riverview Charter School Chess Team, The Riverview Rookrays, at the State of South Carolina Scholastic Chess Champion- ships held in Columbia, S.C. Chris was undefeated in the championship and came in first place overall.

 

Additionally, Kevin Rogers of Beaufort Academy came in first place for second grade and Jack McDougal of Beaufort Academy came in first place for kindergarten.

 

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